It took along time for her to trust us enough to let her pat her and many years before we could pick her up. Many years only our family could touch her but now she loves to be patted by anyone. Lately, since the weather has turned cold, she has been going to work with don in the mornings. She just follows him. The boys have been give her food and they feed her every morning then after she eats she goes straight into the office and sits on the chair. So she's dons right hand man. We are getting worried about her, but as long as she's eating and happily interacting then we will let her continue. But as soon as she turns for the worst ill have to make the heart wrenching decision to take her to the vet. She was not very loving at first and would even attack. But she has learnt to love and has become the most loyal and loving cat, and we all love her to bits.