
the aussie empty nester
living a new life without the kids while having to adjust to chronic pain.
Wednesday, March 11, 2026
Tuesday, March 10, 2026
Lesson learned

Yesterday when I was cutting up all the peppers I didn’t realise that some of them were hot.
Usually I process my own, or buy sweet peppers when they’re on special.
But as these were given to us I didn’t even think about it.
So my hands were feeling like they’re burnt.
Find I thought. I’ll just keep washing them and they will go back to normal
No they didn’t
All night my hands were burning.
I dint sleep until five in the morning
This morning they’re still like that.
So if your working with produce that you haven’t grown, wear gloves
Pretty sure I’ll remember that for next time
Monday, March 9, 2026
Winding down
No. Not us. The seasons.
Harvesting the last of the produce and processing it for winter use.
My art teacher gave us a bag full of tomatoes, hot peppers and zucchini.
I then got home to find this

The market gardeners across the road left these for us.
They also gave us some larger peppers which hubby will grill on the BBQ, and skin them.
There might be enough to have some now and to freeze for winter.
The peppers and tomatoes I cooked this morning

This is what I had after doing all the prep. It pretty much filled my huge wok
Once it was cooked down it filled all of these containers

There is still a lot of work to get the gardens ready for winter planting
It will happen slowly like everything these days
Hubby also sourced some hay to feed the livestock during the winter

The last of the sheep have been processed so it’s only two alpacas, one steer and one donkey
I don’t know if we will get any more sheep we will just wait and see

I’m back to getting the hexis ready to sew into the quilt top

It’s growing I’m going to try and get it into one big hexagon
I guess I’ll just keep adding to it while I have the scraps to use up
So your up to date on what’s happening here in the nest
The worries of the world have just strengthened my aims to grow as much food as I can for my family
Doing this gives me sense of control
It helps to keep me grounded and sane
It’s so very easy to fall into despair
We all need to work on our mental health these days
Saturday, March 7, 2026
Day two
today was day two having Ana. She definitely was much better. Thankfully
As Georgia was here, grandma couldn’t just give all her attention to her.
Again this wasn’t what Ana wanted.
Good thing grandma is an expert at this and even while having Georgia I could still interact with her. Although when getting Georgia to sleep I really needed to be left alone
But when she was asleep fun and games commenced


We found, hidden amongst the stickers, some temporary tattoos.
We set about adorning her arms and legs
After lots of cuddles Georgia woke up
She isn’t sleeping for long at the moment and now we know why
She has cut her first tooth.
I have to say, she has been the most chilled baby , while teething, I’ve ever had.
Except for not sleeping long, unless it was in your arms, you wouldn’t know she was in discomfort


She still loves the camera.
She doesn’t even have the rosy cheeks or drool rash.
Such a beautiful, sweet baby.

I asked Ana to keep an eye on her while I got her bottle ready.
She really doesn’t need much looking after at the moment. Basically I need to watch her with Trixie. Trixie can’t stay away from babies, unfortunately baby’s don’t know she’s a real dog. I’m sure they think she’s a giant animated teddy bear
So Georgia just wasn’t to grab her, usually going for the ears.
That isn’t something I want. Obviously because no matter how gentle Trixie is. I don’t know that if she got her ear pulled she wouldn’t snap.
This wouldn’t be her fault or the baby’s
It would be mine.
So to avoid any dramas I stay close by.
Ana understands this and keeps Trixie away from the grab zone
When grandpa arrived Ana wanted him to colour in with her, leaving me free to just hold and keep Georgia sleeping
If I can do this she’s much happier in the afternoon.
So another week has gone.
Fridays are the mark that reminds me of the end of the week.
If I didn’t have grandkid Fridays I honestly wouldn’t know what day it was. And the time would just pass by.
With me being totally oblivious to it
Thursday, March 5, 2026
Sick day
Ana has tonsillitis and wasn’t well enough to go to daycare.
Yesterday she stayed home with mummy. Went to the doctors and got antibiotics
Today she came to grandmas house 
Grandma had some new crafts to try
Ana sewed with help from grandma
Then she got to decorate

The cupcake icing,and bows were included in the pack
It also came with four little gems to decorate
Well obviously that wasn’t enough,
So the sticker tub came out

She has filled with bling. Inside and out
Ana has decided this will be her makeup bag

I also finally got a big Jenga
We laughed so much every time we had to pull a brick out.
The dice was rolled to tell us what colours to take out.
We had a run of red. Five times in a row. Ana thought this was hilarious as she yelled out “red again!”

She asked me to fix this high chair as the baby was falling out
The top had those plastic studs but were to close together and it wouldn’t reach around the bar.
Grandma fixed that.
Also I tied ribbons to the two bottom corners and tied them to the frame
I placed the doll in oh so happy as I called out to Ana it’s finished
She yells back. I don’t want it now
Grandma mumbled under her breath a few choice words. 
After reading
https://local-kiwi-alien.blogspot.com/
Had made a traditional Greek meal, consisting mainly of peas, I got a little sentimental so I made some too.
I put mine into the slow cooker
I made some focaccia to go with it

Hubby said it was perfect and delicious
Got to be happy with that

Ana had a sleep cuddle me. She needed it when she woke up grandpa was here
She covered both her face and grandpas face with pretty stickers

I think this one is a 21st birthday pic
Now they have gone home. I’ve kinda packed things away.
Dinner was eaten and the kitchen is clean.
Now I rest so I can do it all again tomorrow.
This time with Georgia here too
Wednesday, March 4, 2026
Sunday, March 1, 2026
Comedy caper’s
yesterday afternoon. A lovely young neighbour knocked on my front door.
He told me that the steer had his leg stuck in the fence.
He tried to help but the steer got his leg out in his own. Unfortunately it was on the wrong side of the fence.
Hubby was working in the shed so the young man drove over to let him know.
Hubby arrived with his 4WD buggy, a lead rope and some hay


Thankfully it was a smooth process and no incident.

Apparently, the young man said, it looked like Dobby was trying to help him get his leg out. He was grabbing it with his mouth and tried pulling it out
They have only been together for a few days, but already they’re firm friends

Dobby got some carrots for being a very good boy.
I always say. There’s too much love at our place.
Not that you can ever have too much.
If only humans were as loving
